Success
Marty (SBC Outpost) has written a short critique of this article that laments the immaturity of young pastors. One sentence from Dr. Caner’s lamentation caught my attention: I shudder when I read blogs of men who have never grown a single church, or accomplished anything to deserve to have an opinion, criticize those who have [...]
Co-Parenting Software
In a perfect world divorced parents would be able to talk calmly and reasonably and arrive at joint decisions in their child’s best interest. (I guess I should say in an almost-perfect-world… in a perfect world the parents wouldn’t be divorced.) Unfortunately that doesn’t always happen. Some ex’s just can’t tolerate being in the same [...]
They Always Get Caught
This article just made me laugh: ROME (Reuters) – A man who took his mistress to the beach made the mistake of waving to a film crew on a helicopter covering Italy’s bicycle race and was discovered by his wife. According to media reports, the man was with his younger mistress on a beach in [...]
Children and Porn
I missed this article from MSNBC last February: Study: More kids exposed to online porn. Forty-two percent of Internet users aged 10 to 17 surveyed said they had seen online pornography in the past year. Of those, 66 percent said they did not want to view the images and had not sought them out, University [...]
Road Map to Success
A young couple was in my office the other day. A nice couple with a fairly healthy marriage who complained about only one thing: their sex life. As far as I could tell, they had two issues they couldn’t solve: 1. They put sex on a pedestal making it a taboo subject in their marriage. [...]
Random Thought of the Day
An angry, bitter, contested divorce plus alcohol and unlimited cell phone minutes is a bad combination.
Divorce Among Christians
Over at Kevin’s place (Confessions of a Recovering Pharisee) there is an interesting discussion about why bad things happen in this world. (Go and read Why Won’t God Heal Amputees?) In it a skeptic asks several questions about the nature of Christianity; the last question is Why do Christians get divorced at the same rate [...]
Finals Week
I teach an Intro to Psych class at Tulsa Community College. I told my students at the beginning of the semester I could practically guarantee they would pass my class if they would just show up. On the first day of the course we had a frank discussion about what it takes to make a [...]
Jonah: 3
From Jonah’s Mom: Now the good news…he got out of bed yesterday! Since he didn’t have the epidural line anymore we were able to get him up and put him in a wagon. Across the hall from our room is an outdoor courtyard where they have balls, cars, trikes, and a playground. Jeremy handed him [...]






